My friend Jason is coming over for dinner tonight. I spent the afternoon making lasagna, garlic bread, a cake and preparing a salad. Then I got dressed up in a nice blouse and pants. And then I realized that I have gone to a lot of trouble for a guy who is just a friend. It was kind of a wake up call. I stood in my closet looking at my dressed up reflection in the mirror and had an "Oh My God" moment. What am I doing? Do I like this guy more than I realized? Can I like this guy? He hasn't given me any reason to believe that we could be more than friends. And I have a rule that I don't like guys who don't like me. What to do? What to do?